Social Interaction...

[Amateursexkitty]

I've never been on a site with so many people where there is so little social interaction. On the other side of the site, where all the pictures are, there seems to be almost nothing for interaction. I put up posts, comments and wrote my "about" on my page so as to generate interaction and only got a little.
Before Xham went to shit, I was doing request pictures and videos for people there and was getting around 50 messages a day. I post up pictures and posts here while I'm actually having sex and it's still like pulling teeth getting people to interact. I don't even get 'younger and thinner' as a request

This is a request pic I fulfilled for @Slowhand69

[spanishfly86-4U]

I share your sentiments! I have watched this site for a little while...had a different account at first while i watched it stabilize. I have to say that THIS site shows the most promise in supporting a true community. I am willing to be patient for a genuine meeting place and show room. Sure there are issues with any group site...but this site's admin(s) seem to be sincerely interested in providing a fair and stable platform for honest pervs.
:-)

PS - LMAO at "younger and theinner [by request]" You kill me!

[spanishfly86-4U]

Originally Posted by Amateursexkitty

I've never been on a site with so many people where there is so little social interaction. On the other side of the site, where all the pictures are, there seems to be almost nothing for interaction. I put up posts, comments and wrote my "about" on my page so as to generate interaction and only got a little.
Before Xham went to shit, I was doing request pictures and videos for people there and was getting around 50 messages a day. I post up pictures and posts here while I'm actually having sex and it's still like pulling teeth getting people to interact. I don't even get 'younger and thinner' as a request

This is a request pic I fulfilled for @Slowhand69

...and a week later no more replies - your point is made!! LOL

[hepcat940]

Originally Posted by spanishfly86-4U

...and a week later no more replies - your point is made!! LOL

It's not always like that....although, some people were expecting Pimp and Host would be more like a Pimp and Tinder.
I've been here a couple of years now and have had some good "social interactions"--granted, it's just a few people though.
The main difficulty was weeding through ones to find common interests....those focusing on "expose" "famous" "repost" "webslut" interests weren't close to a common interest.
The newly-started chat option has helped finding like-minded people and have even met up with a few and with an old military friend.

[jackrabbit3]

Totally agree i know I post way too much. I love to chat but very few pervs willing. Too busy jerking off?
BTW this site is awesome. I never had so much freedom. One minor comment too many ppl post just porn pics from other sites

[Amateursexkitty]

Originally Posted by hepcat940

It's not always like that....although, some people were expecting Pimp and Host would be more like a Pimp and Tinder.
I've been here a couple of years now and have had some good "social interactions"--granted, it's just a few people though.
The main difficulty was weeding through ones to find common interests....those focusing on "expose" "famous" "repost" "webslut" interests weren't close to a common interest.
The newly-started chat option has helped finding like-minded people and have even met up with a few and with an old military friend.

Ya, this place will never be Tinder, but then again Xhamster wasn't either even with their dating search function. Porn sites are the absolute worst for dating anyway.

The; Exposed, famous, repost, webslut, etc... posters really aren't anywhere to interact other than to spread their harassment pictures of unsuspecting women. I love how much they harass and stalk women, which makes other women more apprehensive to get nude for pics. That's counterproductive guys, to say the least, LoL!!!

Chat is helping people interact and hopefully it keeps growing. I've been working on getting a couple more female exhibitionist friends that like to do request pics to come here from a couple other places I frequent. I'm guessing the lack of chat for me is I'm just not the body type that people are looking for here.

[Slutexposer]

I agree, there is not so much interaction or response to comments.

I did try the chat function and managed to have some interaction.

Personally I would love to interact more with users , share what turns us on and why in certain pics.


For now I try to be active in the forum and by upvoting/commenting.

Nice custom pic btw !

[pimp]

Hey guys, I'm totally getting what you are saying, and I would love to get the chatting/interaction more active as well, if you have some ideas on what would help that happen, I'm up for suggestions. that's why we build those futures in the first place for the community to use them.

I love what is P&H Shaping to be, and we are improving it daily to make it more convenient and fulfill all the needs of the community, hopefully it will help you guys achieve what you ware looking for also

[Slutexposer]

Hey Pimp,

I think our not so amateursexkitty gave a few good remarks.

It always helps to know how users on the platform think so:

- about me section.. I personally don't like to fill in profiles too much . Tastes and interests can change over time , a bio only shows a part of you. Have too many different types of kinks or turn ons and people can't weed through it lol.

But yeah I find myself clicking bios hoping to learn something about the other person's reasons of being here as well as non sexual interests. It does help sometimes to know how to interact with someone. Might give a first feel.

Conclusion: props to all who fill in a bio but lots and lots are simply empty..

PIMP can you make it so that bios are required to be filled in? Or at least a few indicative words idk...

- chat option, quite honestly great, feels safe too. I haven't had interactions yet that allowed me to use all features but it looks solid.

Please keep it like that!

- Forum is great tbh and I think maybe some people find it easier to interact here .. it is more designed than a meeting place build on interaction instead of a browse and perv gallery with comments.

I see people posting requests to play or talk , i just wonder how many
people discover the Forum?

Crap now my coffee is cold and I have to dash to catch my ride lol ...

[mrstuffy]

Originally Posted by Slutexposer

I see people posting requests to play or talk , i just wonder how many
people discover the Forum?

More people are going to have to discover the Forum because a small handful of users are (unfortunately) being allow to monopolize the Posts.