same here. All pictures i upload say processing.

I try saving my edited and labeled nude pic and it only shows up in a tiny box which I can't use to post in various chat rooms. Help

Please explain more and show screenshots if possible, be as descriptive as possible.

How do I message a follower

On the other side of the site, you could start a conversation with them:
https://pimpandhost.com/conversation/index

Here, on the forum side, you can start a private message:
https://forum.pimpandhost.com/private.php?do=newpm

At least, those two ways have worked for me before....